I took a week off since my previous holiday was thwarted by Covid back in July. I went to the Ocean, which is a totally different vibe than where I live. I consider this a good thing, despite what occurred during the jaunt out.
In the bathroom I found this little placard. It’s totally something you’d see in a beach rental and I immediately thought of you.
But you’ll never guess what I ended up doing? I got a sunburn on the tops of my feet. It was kinda ironic in that I was purposely saving my feet for videos of me in the sand and outside, which for some unknown reason has become increasingly difficult to shoot!
The Sunburn really made me put it into perspective. Here I am, in a place where I’m supposed to be relaxing and I’m stressing out about my feet. I then caught myself looking at my phone and refreshing the pages I manage. What’s ironic (in an “Alanas Morissette” kinda way) is that I’d purposely left the Social logins at the office.
To “land the plane”, so to speak, I’m finding that I will need to detach my ego from my feet. Don’t worry, I’m not giving up on creating ASMR videos for you nor am I going to slow down. I just need to replace the meaning I get from it. After all, it’s ME who is interpreting the meaning…
“Bad”
Sometimes I will get either a snarky comment, like “get those dogs outta here” or just a plain old “I hate feet”. So, it’s hearing or seeing the intention behind putting myself out there when it’s not received well.
Of course in the middle are all the folks that don’t understand. I really don’t have any energy on “converting them” nor do they want me to not love feet, right? It’s okay to just not “get it”.
“Good”
The good comments… now, those either make me blush or… well, write me and I’ll tell ya more. Ha ha! Right?
The point is that it’s so easy to let just a little “bad” seep into the “good” to offend myself.
I do think that it’s good to re-evaluate things in life. What are the things that you re-evaluate on a regular basis? Do you have a routine or ritual around it.
This is all the reason why meeting folks like MisterBareGuy and Silky Soles makes such a different. Meeting like-minded people who “get it” and actually embrace your love of feet. Even 4th Dimension 1985 took off her shoes & socks to paint with me & my toes.
I guess what’s occurring for me is that friendship and companionship can happen in the most unlikely of places. And that, my friend, is one of the beautiful things about life!
For last week’s videos I took a slight respite from the Whisper-Read of “Quantum Success”.
Here is 1 hour of me walking up and down the stairs with the sound of Flip-Flops. That’s right, no talking and just feet going up and down the stairs to put you into a barefoot trance. If you fall asleep to these sorts of videos, let me know. I’d love to start adding that into the descriptions.
I then resumed the book with Chapter 4 and more layered feet/toes for you:
Also, I’ve got some Barefoot Coaching spots coming up in late September. If you are interested, hit “replay” to this email and let’s talk.
As always, there is something for everyone when it comes to FEET!
Thanks again for being a part of my foot fetish family. I genuinely and authentically mean it. I appreciate you. If you want to reach out, just hit “Reply” to this email.
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Any bad comments are balanced by the good and serve as a reminder that not everyone is in to feet as intensely as we are. Every “I hate feet” reaffirms just how much I adore them. Keep doing what you do - I genuinely appreciate it.